If I understand correctly, you’re here to find out how to create lack in a man. No matter how hard you look, you don’t know how to make him miss.
When everything goes well with your man, he should miss you constantly and he should always look forward to seeing you again.
When you miss someone, it is a sign that you really care about that person and that his presence is difficult to replace.
What could be nicer than missing someone you love? Spending time apart can be a good thing for a man to miss.
There are many ways that a man can miss someone and I plan to share them with you in this article so read on to learn more.
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Be the kind of woman he would really miss!
Lea and Malik always have a great time together. They are very complicit and get along very well. It’s obvious, Malik loves spending time with Lea.
As far as Paul and Ines are concerned, these two constantly fight when they are together. They don’t enjoy spending time together.
Guess who will miss his girlfriend the most when they are apart?
It’s simple: either you seek pleasure or you avoid pain.
If, when he’s with you, your man laughs, enjoys your company, bonds with you and gets compliments from you, he’ll enjoy being with you and he’ll want more.
On the other hand, if your relationship is more like that of Paul and Ines, you often argue even though you care about each other.
This means that your man will feel more pain. So he is unlikely to miss you when you are separated.
The secret to him missing you? Be the kind of woman he’d really miss.
Be a great partner. Welcome him with a hug and a smile. Make him feel special. What man wouldn’t like that?
If you have something negative to say, don’t throw yourself at him by attacking him. Find appropriate ways and times to talk about the things that bother you.
You will have a better chance of resolving these issues constructively rather than by harassing him.
Give him space
He needs time on his side to create the lack.
This may sound a bit cliché, but in any relationship, men always need more space than women.
Men are very different from women and this is something you have to accept and understand.
If your man needs a certain amount of space to feel good, you need to give him space to miss you.
Encourage him to go out with his mates! If you don’t live together, don’t spend all your nights at his place, even if he offers.
Let him see his friends and take the opportunity to see yours on your side too. Just like you, he needs to spend time without you to feel closer to you.
In fact, assess your need for space as well. If you find that you never want to have space without him, it’s time for you to start finding your space no matter what.
Take care of your side
It’s not healthy for a couple to spend all their time together. This can lead you to neglect your friends, family and yourself.
It can also make you (too) dependent on them to the point of losing your identity.
So even if you don’t want a space for yourself, it is good for both of you and is one of the ways in which he or she will miss you.
Find things to do instead of looking at him in the whites of his eyes all day. Create your own space without him.
For example, read every morning over coffee, even if you live together. Go on vacation alone or with your girlfriends without him. Do something you like to do without him. You get the idea?
The more space you have for each other, the more you’ll miss each other. On top of that, you’ll have more things to say to each other and share when you see each other again.
Too many couples don’t allow enough time for each other. Don’t make this mistake or you’ll get tired of each other.
Stop trying to miss him
You’re overdoing it, my dear! Men aren’t stupid. They know very well when women are trying to get their attention.
If, when you’re apart, you do the following things, that’s not how he’ll miss you.
On the contrary, it’s a great way to annoy him and even push him away. Besides, it’s childish and you’re not a child.
- Tagging him on Facebook when he wasn’t even with you in those photos;
- Sending him a Snapchat every ten minutes to get his attention;
- Texting his buddies to find out what they’re doing;
- Posting pictures with other guys on Instagram to make him jealous.
The best way to create lack in a man is to be absent.
You’re not really absent if you appear on social networks or in messages every five minutes. When you’re separated from him, be him for real.
You don’t need to constantly appear in his news feed to make him think about you and miss you. The less you appear, the more he will try to get your attention.
Of course, don’t just sit around and wait for him to miss you. Live your life! Have things to do so that you have something to tell him when you see him again.
Go slower than he wants
I know where you screwed up. You didn’t take control of the relationship. You didn’t let him get needy of you.
You gave yourself completely from the beginning so there was nothing left to miss.
A lot of women think that just because a man really wants to keep seeing them, they should let them, they should be available to him.
On the other hand, I would strongly advise you to slow down and go slower than he wants.
Let him have space and long for you to get to know you gently but surely. This is the way to build a solid and serious relationship.
Too often I have seen couples skip steps and end up getting bored and screwing up their relationship.
So as you get closer, always be prepared to go home after a date rather than settle down at his or her home.
He’s bound to want you to go to his house but remember you’re in control so take it slow. You have the time and he’ll miss you for sure.
Leave a little mystery in the conversation
Being mysterious will make her want to see you even more.
There’s a reason why when you watch a movie trailer, you can’t wait to see the movie. It’s because we have, of course, a preview but we have no idea of the whole movie.
We have no idea how it’s going to unfold or how it’s going to end.
Well, the same thing happens when you get to know someone. You don’t have to tell them the greatest achievements of your life on your first date.
Keep a little distance and mystery. Keep them coming back for more.
You could tell him that you sprained your ankle in college, but that’s a story for the next date.
It’ll make him look forward to the next time you’re together. That’s when he can find out more about that scar on his arch.
It’s tempting to put everything on the table on the first date: your love history, your family history, why you love your job… You like this man and you want him to know everything about you and vice versa.
On the other hand, spreading this information out over time helps keep the relationship at a slow and steady pace to give you more topics to talk about.
And when he believes that there is more depth in you, when he wants to keep seeing you, there, he will miss you. He’ll want to dig deeper to find out more about you, even if you don’t give it to him right away.
In short, don’t try to miss him at all costs
As you think about how you will miss him, be aware that if you pay less attention to this area, he will really miss you.
You just need to focus on being the best girlfriend you can be. Have confidence in yourself and live your life without being dependent on him and he will miss you.
Also think about your desire to create the lack in your man. Do you have doubts about your relationship? Do you need to be more sure of him?
Multiply the activities in your life without him. Occupy your body and mind without becoming fixated on “does he miss me or not? ”
What do you do to make you miss your man? Any advice you want to share? Tell us all about it.